Why do Prostate Play?

I'm going to go ahead and open up about my favorite topic – anal care! Anal care is exactly how it sounds - caring for the anus. The anus is the pathway to the great prostate.

It sounds backwards, and in fact it is, because we are a society that cares so much about the opposite end, the mouth! We brush our teeth, we care about how our breath smells, its what we use to breathe and communicate with each other.

But we really don't give much attention to our rear ends because, lets face it, its weird! Its dirty! And its antisocial! Think about it - generally we train our children that THAT is the dirty side of ourselves. We teach them to avoid touching it, and if they do, they'll have to wash their hands immediately.

Though I am not minimizing the importance of washing ones hands before, during and after anal care, I do want to point out how culture generally shies away from any goodness coming from anal care. Your anus is key to gaining awareness to one’s health.

First of all, the anus is just a muscle. Think of it as a doorway. It serves to close off the end of our digestive track. What if you didn't have one? Some people lose theirs - with something called anal prolapse. Its typical for women who have birthed many babies for their vagina to prolapse, sometimes anal cancer survivors or sexual trauma survivors can have anal prolapse. And because its a muscle, its trainable. Think of all those times you received reinforcement from a parent or guardian who helped you learn where the poo goes (in the toilet and not in your diaper)!

In terms of training your anus, its important to realize it has both conscious and automatic connections to it from your brain. That means sometimes you can control it and other times you can’t. My clients always are surprised when I tell them their butthole was loosey goosey when they believed it to be as tight as a lock down!

Oftentimes there is a stigma with a proper massage to the prostate - internally through the anus. No matter if you love the deep sensation of anal play or maybe you can only tolerate a fingertip, that stigma should be washed out and hung over the line to dry! Believing the stigma and avoiding any play with that end of your body would rob you of gushy pleasure you so rightfully deserve!

Let us uphold the greatness of the digestive system. The saying has never been more true - you are what you eat! Its is the primary location of our immune system, the system in charge of fighting off illness. Without good food and a healthy dosage of vitamins and minerals, small bits of undigested food and debris can build up and encourage blockages which, on a small scale, will cause us to lose energy and negatively affect your mood. When you eat well, you feel better and have more energy. When you eat poorly, your mood gets worse and you have less energy. Its not just the tryptophan in the turkey that makes you go to sleep on Thanksgiving afternoon. What about the mashed potatoes, macaroni and cheese and stuffing that were on the same plate? Simply that amount of food can do it, too.

Now that we’ve established the importance of the digestive system and the detrimental effects of blockages even on a small scale (even right up to the anus), how gross is it for a Mistress like myself to go digging for your prostate and come in direct contact with a fecal blockages? Now that is more common than I’d like to admit!

For this reason I assign my new clients with eating and drinking guideline 3 days prior to meeting them. That way I know when I'm on the hunt for your prostate I wont be met with an angry fecal blob looking to steal my (and your) pleasure!