How to Prepare for Prostate Play

Yeah it can be gross! Butt (pun intended) it doesnt have to be. When you think of it in terms of just another body part or a means by which to have the best orgasm of your life, then it doesnt seem so gross.

The first thing you will need is a good capacity for self compassion. The process of how to prepare for prostate play is not for the faint of heart.

Think of your mother. Its likely you were raised by one or two parents (if you were lucky). Your mom was probably the main one to change your dirty diaper, wipe your dirty butt, and provide you with clean, fresh clothes. She loved you when she did it! Then why can't you love yourself when you do it?

Remember the anus is the only means by which the body gets rid of solid trash. What if your body didn't have the ability to remove its own waste? What if you NEVER took the trash out of your house? Remember the Shel Silverstein poem about Hilda never taking out the garbage? A buildup of waste products makes for a toxic environment.

Plus (its a huge plus!) you can always change your diet if you hate it that much. You can always eat healthier. Eating fruits and veggies will improve your quality poo (comes out faster and smoother) and gets rid of blockages that contribute towards slowing your digestive speed. This effort is exactly the effort that’s needed to maximize your pleasure during prostate play!

Important ingredients needed for proper, thorough and relaxed anal care:

• Privacy - for me, I prefer to be at home alone

• Adequate time, anywhere btwn 20 min to 3 hrs

• A toilet and ideally a tub shower next to a toilet

• Some form of enema:

  • Bulb,

  • Saline laxative, or

  • Dependent bag for example.

• Towel to catch excess water when going to the toilet

• Lube for the tip of the enema for extra comfort during insertion

The best way to complete anal care is to decide on the kind of enema you should get. Wanna get it out over a period of 12-24 hours? Try the saline laxative. This is the solution that is in an enema bulb when you buy one at the local pharmacy. Want it out now so you can play in a few hours? Consider using water as it will not keep making it come out like a laxative would.

CAUTION: If you have lower bowel issues or kidney problems or take diuretics for high blood pressure you should clear taking an enema with your doctor. That goes for using saline or water. You shouldn’t need to give a reason why because there are some people out there who like to do the laxatives just to feel clean and cleaned out. But playing with your hydration levels can affect the electrolytes in your body and if you have a medical condition with this area, its better to be safe than sorry.

So generally set yourself up in a bathroom so you can go from toilet to shower in a repeated way. I like to leave a shower towel on the floor so I dont create a creek of water that I need to clean up afterwards. The key to cleaning out is to sit on the toilet and wait for it to come out. Drain out. You can't rush this part. If you do you will GUSH out later on and that's a big turn off to Mistress Cassy!

I like to lay flat in the shower stall when I'm ready to insert the enema. I make sure the tip is wet with water for easy insertion. You can also use lube if you have it handy. Insert your enema and fill your rectum with the solution. Start with just one bulb or just 20 seconds of releasing the fluid from the dependent bag. Hold the solution in, and squeeze your asshole shut. Then get up, go to the toilet and release it. And just wait. More will come out. You can squeeze your asshole shut by telling yourself to tighten your asshole as to stop the flow of poo.

Then generally I like to add more and more solution in between trips to the toilet. The next attempt I would release the solution for 40 sec or add a second bulb. Ideally I like to spend upwards of 2 hrs doing this, of course drinking water and or electrolytes in the meantime so I don't get dehydrated.

But sometimes life gets in the way and I need to do this a little faster than 2 hrs. In that case I use a dependent enema bag while taking a shower. I try to fill rectum and colon with one full bag, wait a moment, and then go to the toilet to release it. The more solution I put up my rectum, the more I need to relax, and the longer I need to stay on the toilet in order to let it all out.

Doing all this puts me in a certain state of mind. My body becomes parasympathetic dominant, which means way more relaxed than consciously aware. I can't achieve a level of relaxation any better than this: not drinking alcohol, smoking pot, receiving massage, or being on the beach in Jamaica!

I have a learned appreciation for anal care! As I care for my body, it gives back to me.