Finding a Legit Sex Worker Who Offers Quality Services

So you're looking for a sex worker to meet with? Yes, the phrase sex worker includes many different types of professionals, so let's narrow down which kind of sex worker you're looking for.

There are escorts and companions. There are fetish models, femdoms, and dominatrices. There are content creators and Only Fans models. As many different kinds of sex workers there are out there, there are many kinds of services offered. What kind of services are you looking for?

This article is focused on in-person meetings where a gentleman is seeking to spend time with a female sex worker and have an exhilarating experience. When the genders switch roles, the suggestions I'm laying out here seem to not apply at times. Male sex workers work and live in a different world than women sex workers.

An escort, like a companion, will offer such an experience. Usually the service she offers is divided by the hour. A good escort will offer hours that decrease in cost the greater the number of hours you book. For example, I offer an increasing discount that starts at 3 hrs. If you book three hours you will receive a discount or 10% per hour. If you book 8 hrs, I offer a 40% discount.

For the sake of this article I will use the term escort, companion, Femdomme and Dominatrix interchangeably. All are offering in person experiences that are divided by the hour. This is regardless of the level of intimacy she offers.

Let's insert an important language correction here. An escort does not ‘cost’ you anything. The language of choice involves a tribute from your end - she doesn't require anything. Because you want to meet with her, she will accept your tribute in the form of a ‘gift’ or a ‘consideration.’ NEVER ask an escort what her ‘cost’ or her ‘price’ is.

Now that we have established that you would like to set up an hour (or many hours) with an escort, now you know how to ask her for her tribute without being rude.

Okay next on the agenda: how to avoid scammy escorts! And how to tell if they are actually real people offering real services. Whichever online platform you meet her will determine how much information is available on her. The more time you spend dedicated to finding out about your potential Mistress will directly yield whether or not this person is legitimate and the feeling her services will bring you. Here's a few things on each popular advertising platform, including history and what you should know about them moving forward:

• Tryst.link - The best advertising platform that works with the provider’s needs and the gent’s needs while keeping the provider in control of her profile. It’s an advertising platform FOR SWers by SWers. They do alot of non profit work and education for sex workers around the world, including references to legal organizations.

• EROS.com - great place to find escorts however have recently taken off subdivisions of services including BDSM, massage and tantra. EROS was recently bought and sold, and continues to show disregard for its advertisers. Escorts are not allowed to post their website.

• P411 - Excellent platform that includes verification for both the gent ('admirer') and the escort ('companion'). Tough to become a verified admirer in that you (I think) have to collect two ‘okays’ from other companions. Once you establish an account, there's a good chance your potential Mistress will not accept P411 alone as screening. Its easy to fake a P411 account.

• TER.com - the oldest platform where gents review their ladies with comments and reviews. It’s easy to fake reviews and difficult for the ladies to get the fake reviews taken down. Some ladies HATE reviews and prefer that you don’t leave a review. All the info available about each lady is 100% completed by the gentlemen, which again, leaves the provider NOT in control of her profile.

• PrivateDelights.ch - IDK too much about it other than it takes a while to establish an account. More common West Coast, USA. I haven’t had good success with this platform here on the East Coast. Watch out for fake websites because this one has plenty of website impersonators that will phish and try to scam you!

• SacredEros.com - I'm just getting familiar with this platform. I understand its great for Tantra providers and sexological/somatic bodyworkers. More info to come later.

In order to make sure your provider is a legitimate person, you will want to cruise all of these platforms and find the potential provider’s ads. All of the ads, regardless of the platform, should reflect the same info - the same level of tribute, the same profile info, the same pics, and most importantly the same contact information. When you ensure this level of continuity platform to platform – there’s a good chance there’s a real person behind all this work ensuring quality of its marketing!

Please contact me if you have any questions or comments about this! I’d like for this to help you in your journey of finding the right kind of provider to see!